In this episode, I sit down with two incredibly brave souls, Gina and Gary, a couple I had the honor of coaching through my 180 Method for couples. Their story is one of healing, hard truths, and deep transformation. This was Gina’s fourth marriage and Gary’s second, and by the time they found me, they were on the brink of walking away. They’d tried therapy. They felt stuck. They felt unseen. But what happened next was powerful. They turned the mirror around. They stopped trying to fix each other and started doing the inner work. We talk about the pain of not being heard, the power of releasing expectations, and how real healing begins with a decision. If you’re in a marriage that feels more like roommates than soulmates, or if you’ve ever felt like you’re doing it all wrong, this one’s for you. Their honesty will move you. Their growth will inspire you.Key moments of this interview:00:00 Meet Gina & Gary, A Story of Redemption3:30 Blended Family, Broken Cycles7:00 “You just have to deal with it.”12:00 “The less I felt heard, the louder I got.”16:00 Childhood Wounds & Core Beliefs20:00 Gina's Truth: “I have to be right.”22:00 Core Memories & Different Realities27:00 Acceptance of Who They’re Not30:00 “This isn't a magic fix.”34:00 “You will repeat the cycle.”Wanting to be coached, guided, and mentored by Alejandra Crisafulli live here on the podcast? Fill out the application here -⁠ https://the180methodcoaching.com/alejandra-consultation⁠Thank you for tuning in to The Decide To Heal podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider rating and reviewing our podcast on your favorite platform. Your support helps us sp messages of healing and transformation.Social Media & Contact Information:Instagram: @theballercoach (https://www.instagram.com/theballercoach/)TikTok: @theballercoach (https://www.tiktok.com/@theballercoach)LinkedIn: Alejandra Crisafulli (https://www.linkedin.com/in/alejandracrisafulli/)Websites: Discover more at (https://www.theballercoach.com/)

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