JOIN THE DAD THE MAN FACEBOOK GROUP --> CLICK HERE <-- or visit https://www.facebook.com/groups/dadthemanToday's guest is none other than legendary big wave surfer and world class dad.. SHANE DORIAN. Shane has traveled the world, chasing the biggest swells and pushing the limits of what's possible on a surfboard, but as we talk about today It sounds like being a great dad and husband Is the biggest adventure yet. We get into a lot of good stuff today.. we get in pretty deep early on talking about spanking. Shane talks about why he did with his kids and how he approached it, and I chat about why I've chosen not to, and the real reason for that. We talk about letting our kids choose their own paths, and not projecting our own visions for them onto them, and how insanely hard it is to be rational when our kids are competing. We talk about paying attention to how we respond in moments of anger and frustration, and how important it is to model the behaviors we want our kids to learn. I enjoyed this conversation so much. I really love getting to talk to guys like Shane who's kids are a little older, so he's got some real dad mileage under his belt. Shane is such a good dude, its no surprise to me now after getting to kick it with him why he was recommended as a "must get" guest for the show from a previous guest of the show. Above it all Shane is an incredible man, husband, and father, and it was an honor to host him on the showDISCUSSION POINTSBorn and raised in HawaiiGrowing up in the 70sRaised by an all-star MomFalling in love with surfing at a young ageMoving out as a child to pursue surfingSpanking kidsApologizing to your kidsYou’re kids are learning from you all the time Don’t yell at your kids to not yellWhisper disciplineWhere Shane was in his professional journey when he met his wifeHow strange it is to have your son be a professional surfer with youLiving up to dad’s expectationsCompetition between his son and daughterShane’s perspective on parentingHelping your kids set their own goalsNot projecting your own dreams on your kids

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