Law enforcement couples often struggle to recognize when a friendship—especially with someone of the opposite sex—crosses emotional boundaries. This episode helps officers and spouses understand how emotional affairs slowly develop, identify warning signs, and rebuild trust and connection by setting clear boundaries and communicating unmet emotional needs. Short Episode Summary In this episode, Cyndi Doyle, licensed professional counselor and author of Hold the Line, unpacks the fine line between healthy friendships and emotional affairs. You'll discover: Why emotional affairs often start as "just friends" Subtle red flags that signal a boundary is being crossed How hypervigilance and shift work can make officers more vulnerable Conversation starters to reconnect with your spouse How to rebuild intimacy and trust after boundaries blur Hosted by Cyndi Doyle, LPC-S, retired police spouse, and author of Hold the Line, the Code4Couples® Podcast empowers law enforcement officers and their partners to stay connected, resilient, and code four in both marriage and life. 📘 Grab Cyndi's book "Hold the Line" → https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Line-Protecting-Enforcement-Relationship-ebook/dp/B08TPRTY9G#customerReviews 🎤 Book Cyndi to speak or train your department → https://code4couples.com/training/ 00:00 Intro – The "just friends" question 01:45 Why emotional boundaries matter 05:20 How emotional affairs start gradually 10:00 Warning signs and red flags 15:00 Digital connections and online vulnerability 20:00 How to rebuild trust and reconnection 22:00 Cyndi's final thoughts and resources

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