Make holiday choices that work for you

25/11/2025 23 min
Make holiday choices that work for you

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Episode Synopsis

In this episode, we're looking at how we unintentionally contribute to our own holiday overwhelm, and how we can make choices this season that actually work FOR us instead of against us. The holidays are meant to sparkle with joy, but we all know firsthand how it feels to get caught in the whirlwind of picture-perfect expectations (miles of twinkling lights and Pinterest-worthy cookies anyone?). I'm sharing how to take back control, set boundaries, and actually enjoy the season instead of running yourself into the ground. You'll learn why doing less isn't a failure (it's liberation) and how giving yourself permission to break traditions or to call in support can make all the difference. I'll offer my favorite practical ways to simplify and clarify what matters most, so you create a holiday that feels magical instead of exhausting. Let's say yes to more connection and a whole lot less chaos this holiday season, and create celebrations that are both meaningful and manageable.  Show Highlights: Permission to savor the season stress-free. [00:48] What do you want to feel this holiday season? [04:58] Freedom to delegate and outsource holiday tasks. [06:46] Being honest about self-created overwhelm. [08:18] Why doing less for the holidays is not failing. [10:39] The joy of spontaneity in breaking with tradition. [13:08] An extended-family gift exchange idea over individual gift giving. [14:04] Tips to manage holiday preparations like a project. [15:56] Setting boundaries around holiday participation. [19:27] The value of connection over perfection. [21:09] Download the Brilliant Balance holiday planning guide. [22:37] To download my Holiday Planning Guide: https://brilliant-balance.com/holiday Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly: www.brilliant-balance.com/weekly Follow Cherylanne on Instagram: www.instagram.com/cskolnicki Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/281949848958057