Listen "BW 131: Loving an Addict: Insights on Grief, Guilt, and Healing with Deanna Marie"
Episode Synopsis
Deanna Marie is a life coach specializing in helping women navigate relationships with alcoholic partners.
Deanna shares her personal journey of being married to an alcoholic for 20 years, how she turned her pain into purpose, and the wisdom she's gained through her coaching practice.
Together, she and Emily, tackle some of the most difficult questions about grief, guilt, and finding hope, particularly for widows who have lost a partner to addiction.
From learning to detach with love to setting boundaries and focusing on self-care, this conversation is packed with actionable advice and heartfelt encouragement.
If you've struggled with complicated grief, feelings of guilt, or navigating relationships with an addicted partner, this episode is for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
💬 Why people stay in relationships with alcoholic partners and how to navigate that decision. 💬 Understanding the guilt and shame often tied to loving an addict—and why it's not your fault. 💬 How to approach communication and set healthy boundaries with someone struggling with addiction. 💬 Insightful advice for widows navigating the complicated grief that comes with losing an addicted partner. 💬 The importance of prioritizing self-care and rediscovering yourself after loss or difficult relationships.
👉 Links Mentioned in the Episode:
https://www.deannamarielifecoaching.com
https://www.facebook.com/deannamarielifecoaching
https://www.instagram.com/deannamarielifecoaching
💬 Let us know what resonated with you most in the comments below!
Chapters:
00:26 Meet Deanna Marie: Life Coach for Partners of Alcoholics
00:55 Deanna's Personal Journey and Mission
02:30 Understanding Complicated Grief in Relationships with Addicts
03:35 Why Do People Stay in Relationships with Alcoholics?
07:16 The Struggles and Guilt of Loving an Addict
11:20 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships
15:58 Communicating and Setting Boundaries with an Addict
23:09 Supporting an Addict Without Losing Yourself
28:41 Deanna's Contact Information and Closing Remarks
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