Being “nice” kept the peace—but it cost the power. In Episode 4, Nice Got Me Nowhere, I sit down with guest Martha and surprise guests to unpack the Nice Tax (time, energy, self-respect), draw the line between baseline vs. bare minimum in dating, and flip the boundary switches—Standards ON, DND after 10 ON, Self-respect ON. You’ll hear real receipts, a few novela-level rewrites, and clear scripts you can steal (e.g., “I’m free Thu 7–9—plan it or pass.”). Be delulu, not a doormat. Share your win with a 🦋 at @alittlebitdelulupod.

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