I used to think 40 was the top of the hill—like life had peaked and the rest was just a slow coast down. But standing here now, at the edge of this new decade, I’ve never felt more grounded, more whole, or more at peace with who I am.This birthday felt different. Not just because it’s “the big 4-0,” but because I entered it with a clarity I didn’t expect. For so long, I looked at 40 as a milestone that belonged to women who had it all figured out—my mom, her friends, the ones who seemed to move through life with certainty and grace.But now that I’m here, I’m realizing something powerful: 40 doesn’t mean the end of becoming—it means stepping into a new kind of becoming. One that’s rooted in peace, not proving. In purpose, not pressure.This episode is a love letter to this new season. To the version of me that’s softer, stronger, and no longer trying to explain her way into acceptance.💡 Themes + Takeaways-- 40 doesn’t feel like decline—it feels like depth-- My body may carry stretch marks and aches, but it also carries strength, story, and resilience-- Letting go of the need to be understood by everyone is liberating-- Playfulness, presence, and peace are the new goals—not hustle for hustle’s sake-- I’m choosing to lead from the front again, not because I have to, but because I want to-- Alignment over ambition. Purpose over popularity. Faith over fear.Pull Quotes“There’s a quiet strength that comes when you’ve been broken and rebuilt.”“I’m not here to make everyone comfortable—I’m here to be real.”“Healing isn’t passive. You have to show up for yourself, even when it’s messy.”“It’s not hustle for the sake of hustle. It’s building from a place of wholeness and intention.”“I’m letting people misunderstand me if they need to. I’m not explaining myself to earn approval.”⏱ Chapter Markers00:00 Looking back at 40 and what I used to believe02:00 Feeling stronger—body, mind, and sou03:24 Therapy, support, and the real work of healing04:56 Reclaiming joy and shedding other people’s opinions06:33 Friendship, connection, and choosing peace08:18 From survival to structure—building Hustle & Heart09:35 Stepping back into the salon with intention10:57 A letter to my 40s13:49 You’re not behind—permission to evolve at your own pace14:40 A prayer for every woman walking through transitionYour TurnThis week’s reflection:Where in your life are you being invited to soften?Maybe it’s a role you’re reclaiming—not out of obligation, but out of desire.Maybe it’s a belief you’re finally ready to let go of.Maybe it’s time to stop explaining and start embodying.Let this be your permission slip to slow down, breathe deep, and step into this next chapter with your whole heart.💛 Let’s Stay ConnectedI really do mean it when I say: my DMs are always open.✨ Got a story to share? A moment that hit home? Slide in anytime.Here’s where to find me and go deeper:Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/jessica_hustleandheartsalon/Podcast blog → https://hustleandheartsalon.com/blog/ Salon home → https://hustleandheartsalon.com/

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