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Episode Synopsis
Episode 28: Red Flags in Dating – What to Spot and How to Handle Them
In this episode of Why Do I Do That?, Jess and Steph dive into the world of dating red flags with honesty, humor, and actionable advice. Here's what they cover:
Personal Red Flags
Jess shares her ability to emotionally disconnect and avoid repair.
Steph reflects on her own avoidance tendencies and how she's working to overcome them.
Common Red Flags in Dating
Bad manners or disrespectful behavior.
Talking excessively about exes—whether positive or negative.
Cocky or arrogant egos and what they might reveal.
People with no friends or poor-quality social circles.
Audience-Submitted Red Flags
Crazy eyes and gut feelings of discomfort.
Overly sexual comments or behavior, especially when inappropriate or unsolicited.
Dishonesty, even when the truth is harmless.
Key Insights and Takeaways
Context matters: Is it truly a red flag, or could it be nerves or past trauma?
Recognizing attachment styles: Anxious attachment can manifest as "too much, too soon."
Healthy dating practices: "Abundance dating" helps those with anxious tendencies gain perspective.
Self-reflection: Are you projecting past fears, or is this behavior genuinely concerning?
Empowering Advice
Focus on how someone makes you feel rather than ticking boxes of red flags.
Dating is about collecting data—learn from every interaction to refine your boundaries and values.
Be willing to communicate and give space for growth, but know when to walk away.
This episode is a candid, relatable, and practical guide to navigating red flags and finding clarity in the dating world. Perfect for anyone looking to date with more awareness and confidence!
In this episode of Why Do I Do That?, Jess and Steph dive into the world of dating red flags with honesty, humor, and actionable advice. Here's what they cover:
Personal Red Flags
Jess shares her ability to emotionally disconnect and avoid repair.
Steph reflects on her own avoidance tendencies and how she's working to overcome them.
Common Red Flags in Dating
Bad manners or disrespectful behavior.
Talking excessively about exes—whether positive or negative.
Cocky or arrogant egos and what they might reveal.
People with no friends or poor-quality social circles.
Audience-Submitted Red Flags
Crazy eyes and gut feelings of discomfort.
Overly sexual comments or behavior, especially when inappropriate or unsolicited.
Dishonesty, even when the truth is harmless.
Key Insights and Takeaways
Context matters: Is it truly a red flag, or could it be nerves or past trauma?
Recognizing attachment styles: Anxious attachment can manifest as "too much, too soon."
Healthy dating practices: "Abundance dating" helps those with anxious tendencies gain perspective.
Self-reflection: Are you projecting past fears, or is this behavior genuinely concerning?
Empowering Advice
Focus on how someone makes you feel rather than ticking boxes of red flags.
Dating is about collecting data—learn from every interaction to refine your boundaries and values.
Be willing to communicate and give space for growth, but know when to walk away.
This episode is a candid, relatable, and practical guide to navigating red flags and finding clarity in the dating world. Perfect for anyone looking to date with more awareness and confidence!
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