Are you stuck in a loop of people-pleasing, overthinking, or needing control? Here's the truth behind those habits - and how to break free without shame. In this deeply honest solo episode, I’m sharing the real reason I became a habit change coach, and it’s not because I had it all figured out. It’s because I didn’t. I was stuck in anxiety, resentment, and old patterns that looked like “being helpful” but were really about trying to control how people saw me. If you’ve ever felt like you’re managing everyone else’s emotions but don’t know how to deal with your own, this one’s for you. You’ll hear how coaching helped me stop spiraling and start leading myself - without losing my mind or my relationships. What we cover in this episode: What controlling behavior is really about (spoiler: it’s not about being a control freak) How people-pleasing and gossip are signs you’re scared to feel your feelings Why “I just want them to understand” is often code for “I don’t feel safe” How the pause between trigger and response is where your power lives The real difference between reacting and responding - and why it matters How habit change helped me stop outsourcing my self-worth What to do when you know you’re in a pattern, but don’t know how to stop This episode is an invitation to stop fighting yourself, to get curious instead of judgmental, and to start making small shifts that build emotional freedom. You don’t need a personality overhaul, you just need new patterns. And I’ll show you how to start. Resources & Links: Subscribe to my newsletter for weekly mindset tools, self-leadership tips, and habits that help you come home to yourself. If this episode landed for you, send it to a friend or drop me a message, I’d love to know what it brought up. You’re not too much, you’re not too late, and you are absolutely capable of change.    

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