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Episode Synopsis
In this refreshingly open and honest episode, Betina and Jen tackle self-love through the lens of body acceptance, sharing stories that range from funny to heartbreaking. Betina recounts her culture-shock moment at a Midwest "club" where her Thanksgiving dinner outfit left her overdressed. Jen celebrates Betina's unshakable confidence regardless of pant size, contrasting it with communities where self-assurance feels like a foreign language. Through vulnerable admissions about their own harsh self-criticism, they challenge the idea that bodies are projects requiring constant fixing rather than homes deserving love and gratitude. The conversation moves from comparison culture to genuine self-acceptance, exploring why treating ourselves with the same kindness we'd offer a struggling friend feels so impossibly hard, yet is so necessary for showing up fully in life.Time stamps:00:00 Intros2:23 Temp Check: Self-Love vs. Self-Criticism Temp - What’s your temp for how comfortable you are in celebrating your body exactly the way it is right now?15:15 Back Story: Learning to look at yourself with gratitude instead of a to-do list. Think about times when you found yourself being crueler to yourself than you’d be to a friend. 38:20 Life Focus: Understanding that self-love isn’t conditional on perfection; recognizing your body as a home, not a project; celebrating what your body has carried you through.57:58 Recipes: Body Gratitude Bowl - Food that honors what your body needsRecipes:Betina’s Loaded Broccoli Cheddar Potato SoupChop bacon then cook in dutch oven remove some of the oil droppingsChop white and green onions and saute in the remaining bacon droppingsPeel and chop potatoesAdd to pot with onion and boil in chicken stockWash and chop broccoli and carrotsAdd to pot just before potatoes get fork tender also add garlic pasteMake cheese rouxIn a pot add butter and all purpose flourUsing milk and cheese build up the cheese sauce and season with salt, pepper and smoked paprikaBy now stock should have somewhat cooked downAdd cheese sauceMix add heavy cream if necessaryServe topped what bacon bits and a toasted bread if desiredJen’s Greek bowlChic peasTomatoesCucumberolivesRiceTahini or hummusFeta cheese (optional)Served with flat breadMusic Credits:0:00 “For My Good” - AFTR14:45 “Umbele” - Ebo Krdum37:59 “Back in My Bag, Again” - Iso Indies46:24 “Chase” - Say3.263:34 “Umbele” - Ebo KrdumFollow Links:https://www.instagram.com/whatsthetemp_Follow on Facebook:https://www.https://www.facebook.com/whatsthetemppodcastSubscribe on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@WhatstheTempPodcastContact:[email protected]
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