Live Pono Love Pono Episode 49: David Nisthal and Chris Yanuaria discuss the toxic idea of being "Man Enough," and how the concept can damage society.

07/02/2025 40 min

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Episode Synopsis


Welcome to 'Live Pono, Love Pono,'. In this episode, we explore the toxic idea of being "man enough," a societal expectation deeply rooted in traditional gender roles and stereotypes. This notion challenges men to conform to rigid standards of masculinity, often leading to the suppression of emotions, aggressive behaviors, and a disconnect from authentic self-expression. 
This episode features two esteemed guests:  

Chris Yanuaria - Personal Support Counselor at UH Maui College and a noteworthy advocate for men’s circles. His work focuses on creating safe spaces for men to unpack toxic masculine norms and embrace positive masculinity.
David Nisthal - An Instructor at UH Manoa with substantial expertise in Sexual Violence Prevention Education. He works with youth to promote healthy masculine identities and address gender-based violence.


Our discussion aims to dissect how society’s harmful stereotypes impact not only men but also how they treat women and each other. We’ll explore actionable steps towards promoting and supporting healthy, positive, and nonviolent forms of masculinity. 

💡 This episode promises an essential dialogue on reshaping masculinity and its implications on gender-based violence. Tune in to discover impactful insights and the power of men’s circles in fostering change.



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