S3E8: Intimacy Coordination in Film and What It Teaches Us About Boundaries with Rayann Condy

11/02/2025 1h 0min Temporada 3 Episodio 8

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Ever wondered who ensures those steamy (or awkward) on-screen moments don’t turn into a total nightmare for actors? Meet Rayann, an intimacy coordinator, director, and casting pro with 25 years in the arts, who's on a mission to change how Singapore and Southeast Asia handle intimacy on screen.From tackling cultural taboos to applying consent and boundaries beyond film, think relationships, parenting, even the workplace, Rayann breaks it all down. If you've ever cringed at a badly done love scene or wondered how to teach kids about personal space without making it weird, this one's for you.Tune in, because intimacy isn’t just about romance, it’s about how we connect with everyone.For collaborations, partnerships, or feedback, reach us [email protected] the podcast 5 stars, follow, and share if you enjoy our content.Listen to the audio version of this podcast:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2UUDTSerqtElRlzbDujZji?si=d4ff63ff3321493aApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-do-i-know-with-joanne-peh/id1619082241Follow us on social media:Joanne Peh: https://www.instagram.com/joannepeh/What Do I Know? Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/whatdoesjoanneknow/ZYRUP Media:https://www.instagram.com/zyrupmedia/ Rayann CondyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rayann_condy/ Website:https://www.rayanncondy.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rayann-condy/?originalSubdomain=sg Chapters: 0:00 Start of Episode01:41 Introduction of Ryann Condy01:57 Joanne’s First Intimacy Experience03:06 What is an Intimacy Coordinator?03:39  Intimacy Coordination in America vs. SEA08:11 The Me Too Movement 09:07  Ryann’s Process as an Intimacy Coordinator13:33 What is the Fear of Power on Set?15:54 When Does an Intimacy Coordinator Come In?18:15 How Does Consent Work?20:03 Intimacy Call 21:15 What Actors Think Before Doing Intimate Scenes23:08 Intimacy Kits 25:22 How Are Intimate Scenes Made Realistic?27:20 Intimate Scenes Throughout the Years28:45 Crew’s Involvement in Intimate Scenes31:37 What are Boundaries? What is Okay Cross?33:00 How to Identify Your Boundaries35:56 How to Articulate Your Boundaries 41:12 How to Teach Kids Articulating Their Boundaries44:51 How We Should  Respond To Other People’s Boundaries45:32 Consent & Boundaries in the Corporate Space53:27 How Do You Process A Boundary That’s Been Crossed?55:01 Does It Help to Confront Your Perpetrator?56:24 Communicating Boundaries Effectively58:08 Farewells01:00:36 End of Episode

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