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Episode 33 – You Don’t Need FixingIn this episode, Jen Hoyer challenges the belief that we need to “fix” ourselves. Through a personal story about a dentist visit and her own journey with self-acceptance, Jen explores how our unique traits connect us to our heritage and make us who we are. She discusses the cultural pressures to conform to ever-changing beauty standards and offers practical advice for embracing our individuality.[0:50] Story from the Dentist’s ChairJen shares a personal story about a dentist offering to “fix” her teeth, which leads to a reflection on self-acceptance.[2:25] Family Heritage and Embracing UniquenessJen discovers her gap teeth are a family trait, not a flaw, and learns to embrace her uniqueness.[4:48] The Trap of Comparison and Changing Beauty StandardsDiscussion on how beauty standards have shifted over the decades and the dangers of comparing ourselves to others or to media images.[7:27] Lessons from C.S. Lewis and Cultural PressuresJen references “The Screwtape Letters” to highlight how culture manipulates our perceptions of beauty and worth.[10:45] The Power of Embracing Your BodyJen shares practical truths:We’re not all meant to look alike ([11:20])Your body is designed for function, not perfection ([11:52])Comparison is the thief of joy ([13:12])Fixing isn’t the answer—appreciation is ([14:29])Your worth is not tied to your looks ([15:23])[16:29] The Path to Self-Love and True WellnessJen explains how embracing and appreciating your body leads to better self-care and real health, not just chasing numbers or appearances.[18:56] Final Thoughts: You Don’t Need FixingA reminder that you are not broken, and your unique traits are part of your story. Jen encourages listeners to list and appreciate their own unique features.Want to go deeper and experience how coaching can change your journey? Learn more about The Wellness Mastery Society at www.wellnessmasteryforlife.com/thesocietyWant to learn more?Check out my website at www.wellnessmasteryforlife.com and follow me on Instagram @wellnessmastery4life or Facebook facebook.com/WellnessMastery4Life
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