Listen "110. Stop Asking Why: The Surprising Secret to Moving Forward"
Episode Synopsis
Ever feel like you're stuck in a mental maze, constantly asking "why" but never finding your way out? You're not alone. In this eye-opening episode, we dive into:
The hidden cost of always seeking answers
How your brain's need for closure might be holding you back
The liberating power of acceptance (and why it's not giving up)
A simple mindset shift that can change everything
Plus, discover the research-backed strategy that's helping people break free from overthinking and start living their best lives.
Whether you're dealing with a past heartbreak, a career setback, or just feeling stuck in general, this episode offers a fresh perspective that could be the game-changer you've been looking for.
Ready to stop spinning your wheels and start moving forward? This is the episode for you.
Key takeaways:
The difference between helpful and harmful "whys"
How to recognize when you're trapped in unproductive thinking
Practical tips for shifting from "why" to "what's next"
The unexpected benefits of surrendering to "what is"
Don't miss the powerful exercise that's helping people transform their approach to life's challenges. Tune in now and take the first step towards unsticking your life!
Remember to subscribe, rate, and review if you found this episode helpful. Your feedback helps us reach more people who could benefit from these insights.
Resources mentioned:
"Start with Why" by Simon Sinek
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology study on cognitive closure
2010 Emotion study on accepting negative emotions
Want to dive deeper? Check out our website for additional resources and information on one-on-one coaching.
How to Connect With Pamela:
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About the host:
Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.
This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.
I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.
The hidden cost of always seeking answers
How your brain's need for closure might be holding you back
The liberating power of acceptance (and why it's not giving up)
A simple mindset shift that can change everything
Plus, discover the research-backed strategy that's helping people break free from overthinking and start living their best lives.
Whether you're dealing with a past heartbreak, a career setback, or just feeling stuck in general, this episode offers a fresh perspective that could be the game-changer you've been looking for.
Ready to stop spinning your wheels and start moving forward? This is the episode for you.
Key takeaways:
The difference between helpful and harmful "whys"
How to recognize when you're trapped in unproductive thinking
Practical tips for shifting from "why" to "what's next"
The unexpected benefits of surrendering to "what is"
Don't miss the powerful exercise that's helping people transform their approach to life's challenges. Tune in now and take the first step towards unsticking your life!
Remember to subscribe, rate, and review if you found this episode helpful. Your feedback helps us reach more people who could benefit from these insights.
Resources mentioned:
"Start with Why" by Simon Sinek
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology study on cognitive closure
2010 Emotion study on accepting negative emotions
Want to dive deeper? Check out our website for additional resources and information on one-on-one coaching.
How to Connect With Pamela:
Website
Facebook
Instagram
TikTok
About the host:
Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.
This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.
I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.
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