In our last episode, you met Nico, who was struggling with unhealthy patterns of suppression, numbing, and comparison. Jay spoke with Allan Kehler, who shared the power of expressing how you feel rather than holding it in. In this solo episode, Jay explores the crucial difference between playing the victim and expressing emotions in a healthy way. Drawing from personal experiences and lessons learned over years of coaching and speaking, Jay shares how unexpressed emotions, especially anger, can quietly erode well-being and relationships. He explains the subtle, covert ways people slip into victimhood, even when they believe they’re avoiding it, and contrasts this with mindful, constructive expression. Jay offers practical steps for noticing and acknowledging emotions without fueling them, creating space between stimulus and response, and communicating feelings with detachment rather than blame. Through journaling, trusted conversations, and mindfulness practices, he shows how to release emotions without falling into the victim mindset. If you’ve ever struggled to voice your feelings without guilt or fear of being “the victim,” this episode will give you the tools to break the cycle and express yourself with honesty, self-awareness, and calm. Notable Quotes “You can feel anger without turning it into a battle of you versus them.” — Jay Abbasi “You don’t have to suppress emotions to avoid being the victim. You just have to express them mindfully.” — Jay Abbasi Resources and Links Jay Abbasi Website: https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Join Us Next Time In Monday’s episode, Jay introduces Matthew, an executive director of a nonprofit facing a culture of burnout and limited resources. His team is constantly underwater, and he feels like nothing he’s doing is helping. Jay meets with Cait Donovan, one of the leading voices in burnout prevention and recovery, to discuss how mission-driven leaders can hold it together for their teams without quietly unraveling themselves. Don’t miss this inspiring and actionable discussion!

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