Listen "Is This a Soft Life or a Survival Mode Aesthetic?"
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Send us a textEpisode Summary:In this episode, Destiny peels back the layers of what it really means to live a soft life. Is it true rest and ease—or just a well-filtered performance of peace? We explore how curated comfort can mask burnout, how to spot the difference between living soft and surviving quietly, and why healing is the key to real softness.What You’ll Hear In This Episode:The real definition of “soft life” and how it’s evolvedSigns you’re stuck in a survival mode aestheticHow trauma can fuel over-functioning and perfectionThe difference between embodying softness and performing itWhy self-care without self-awareness can keep you stuckJournal prompts to help you reflect and resetListener Takeaways:Reframe your idea of rest: it’s not just naps and candles—it’s nervous system safetyIdentify if you’ve been hiding burnout behind a pretty routineLearn how to step into a truly healed and gentle version of youGet honest about what’s fueling your “soft life”—healing or hiding?Journal Prompts:Am I performing softness, or am I living it?What does safety feel like in my body?What am I using aesthetics to avoid?What’s one shift I can make to move from survival to softness?Let’s Connect:Follow Destiny on Instagram: @theedestinyc Tag the show and share your thoughts using #UnfilteredDestiny Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps us reach more strong, soft souls like you.Support the show Follow Destiny: Instagram - @theedestinyc Join the conversation: Use #BecomingHER
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