Listen "52. Who Supports Whom? Breadwinner vs. Stay-at-Home Parent"
Episode Synopsis
Send us a textFinancial autonomy for stay-at-home parents means having options and being able to exercise them without justification or permission, even when you're not collecting a paycheck. We examine how historical patterns like the law of coverture have evolved into modern expectations that devalue domestic labor while romanticizing the stay-at-home parent role.• Economists estimate the unpaid labor of stay-at-home parents is worth over $100,000 annually• The narrative of who's "supporting" whom needs to be flipped - the stay-at-home parent enables the working parent's career• Financial autonomy doesn't undermine partnership but strengthens it by creating equality• Access to separate accounts, having your own money, and retirement savings are practical steps toward autonomy• Teaching financial literacy to children, especially daughters, helps break intergenerational patterns• Both spouses deserve financial autonomy regardless of who's bringing home a paycheck• Feeling resentful about finances often signals a boundary violation that needs addressingYour work is valuable, and your contribution is real whether you're getting a paycheck or not. Share your thoughts on social media, and join us next time as we discuss what to do when your partner won't play fair.LinksThe Way We Never Were American Families and the Nostalgia Trap by Stephanie CoontzDomestic Dialogue: Flipping the Labor ScriptNotes on Project 2025 by Rachel HurleyEnd the Dysfunctional Cycles in Your Relationship and Stay in Love for Life (Terry Real)If we empower women to work outside the house without expecting men to work inside the house…The Fair Play Book | Fair Play Life by Eve Rodsky The Documentary | Fair Play LifeTHE EMOTIONAL LABOR SERIES: Let's Talk Emotional Labor and Mental Load - Bare MarriageThanks for listening! Connect with us via Facebook: Uncovered: Life Beyond Instagram: @uncoveredlifebeyond Email: [email protected] Website: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2171591 Subscribe (for free) to Uncovered: Life Beyond on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or wherever you get your podcasts so you'll never miss an episode!What topics at the intersection of education, high-demand religion, career, parenting, and emotional intelligence are of interest to you? Help us plan future episodes by taking this quick listener survey. We appreciate your input very much!
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