Listen "He Realized He Had Married Three Versions of His Mother"
Episode Synopsis
Have you ever found yourself stuck in a pattern, wondering why you're drawn to the same types of relationships or struggling to make meaningful connections? This episode dives into the roots of those patterns.. spoiler alert, it often starts in childhood! In this episode, Tara sits down with Brian, a listener who reached out for a coaching session. Brian, in his late 40s and living in a small town in West Texas, opens up about his struggles with relationships. After three marriages and raising kids from two of those relationships, he's reached a point where dating feels overwhelming, almost impossible. Yet, underneath his hesitations, there's still a desire to connect and find meaningful relationships. Brian shares how his childhood experiences, especially his deep bond with his grandmother and a challenging relationship with his mother, shaped his choices in partners. Tara guides him through a powerful coaching session to uncover the connection between his early family dynamics and the patterns he's carried into adulthood. Through vulnerable moments and insightful breakthroughs, Brian begins to peel back the layers of his relationship struggles and see the path toward healing. In this episode, you'll hear: • How childhood shapes the way we choose partners and form relationships. • The role of unresolved family dynamics in adult relationship struggles. • The power of self-awareness and addressing the root of unhealthy attachment patterns. • What it means to take accountability and move toward healthier, more fulfilling connections. If you want to work one-on-one with Tara, head to unblockyourbs.com /podcast. There's a link there where you can find a time to schedule a time with her and you can start to help you unblock your BS too! Connect with Tara: Follow @unblockyourbs on Instagram @unblockyourbs on TikTok Watch the episodes on YouTube Join the Self Aware Army Healing Community Book a 1:1 call with Tara 1:1 Virtual Breathwork Session with Tara FREE 5-minute Breathwork Download Submit a question for an upcoming Podcast or LIVE __________________________________________________________________________________ Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional medical, mental health, or legal advice. I am not a licensed mental health professional or medical provider and cannot diagnose, treat, or prescribe medication for any condition. If you or someone you know is struggling, please ask for support from a licensed professional or contact a trusted organization in your area. In cases of crisis or emergency, please contact local authorities or a crisis hotline immediately. The views expressed in this podcast are my personal opinions and those of my guests. They are not intended to replace professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Thank you for listening responsibly.
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