Listen "Control Isn’t Love: Abuse in LGBTQ+ Relationships"
Episode Synopsis
On this episode, we chat to James O’Hagan from LGBT Ireland. James coordinates the LGBTQI+ Intimate Partner Violence Network.
We’ll be chatting about things like:
- Does abuse happen in LGBTQ+ relationships?
- What are the red flags of abuse in LGBTQ+ relationships?
- What does a healthy queer relationship look like?
- Where can young LGBTQ+ people find support?
Take the Relationship Quiz at toointoyou.ie to see if yours is healthy or not.
Remember, if you are worried about your own or a friend’s relationship:
Call Women’s Aid 24Hr National Freephone Helpline on 1800 341 900.
Chat for support at toointoyou.ie
Both are completely free and confidential.
Contact LGBT Ireland:
Call National LGBT Helpline on 1800 929 539
Find information and support at lgbt.ie
Don’t forget to give us a 5 star rating and leave a comment
Chapters
00:00 Intro
04:01 Who is LGBT Ireland and LGBTQI+ Community Intimate Partner Abuse Network
06:17 How coming out impacts young LGBTQ+ relationships
14:38 Common red flags of abuse in LGBTQ+ relationships
18:41 Dating someone who is already out
22:13 How abuse happens in LGBTQ+ relationships
26:10 Barriers to seeking support
29:08 Where to go for support
31:34 Supporting a friend or family member
34:00 Episode chat with Madeline Campbell
We’ll be chatting about things like:
- Does abuse happen in LGBTQ+ relationships?
- What are the red flags of abuse in LGBTQ+ relationships?
- What does a healthy queer relationship look like?
- Where can young LGBTQ+ people find support?
Take the Relationship Quiz at toointoyou.ie to see if yours is healthy or not.
Remember, if you are worried about your own or a friend’s relationship:
Call Women’s Aid 24Hr National Freephone Helpline on 1800 341 900.
Chat for support at toointoyou.ie
Both are completely free and confidential.
Contact LGBT Ireland:
Call National LGBT Helpline on 1800 929 539
Find information and support at lgbt.ie
Don’t forget to give us a 5 star rating and leave a comment
Chapters
00:00 Intro
04:01 Who is LGBT Ireland and LGBTQI+ Community Intimate Partner Abuse Network
06:17 How coming out impacts young LGBTQ+ relationships
14:38 Common red flags of abuse in LGBTQ+ relationships
18:41 Dating someone who is already out
22:13 How abuse happens in LGBTQ+ relationships
26:10 Barriers to seeking support
29:08 Where to go for support
31:34 Supporting a friend or family member
34:00 Episode chat with Madeline Campbell
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