When Your Toddler Says 'No' To Everything

07/01/2026 8 min
When Your Toddler Says 'No' To Everything

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Episode Synopsis

Why does your toddler say no to everything — even things they usually do without a problem?

In this episode, Dr. Cathryn explains the “you-can’t-make-me” reflex — a very normal (and healthy) stage of toddler development that often gets mistaken for defiance.

You’ll learn:



Why toddler resistance is about development, not disrespect




What’s happening inside your child’s brain when “no” comes out fast




The situations that make resistance worse (and why)




What not to do if you want cooperation




Simple, big-hearted ways to guide your child through resistance without power struggles




If mornings feel like constant pushback and you’re wondering, “Why is everything so hard?” — this episode will help you see your toddler differently and respond with more calm and confidence.



RESOURCES:



The Big-Hearted School Of Parenting membership

Toddlers Made Easy - a sweet & smart online course

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