Listen "Neuroscience at Notre Dame, independence & life advice | An interview with Melanie Benítez"
Episode Synopsis
Hey, there! This week I am joined by my dear friend Melanie. Before our tea talk, I introduce her. We get to know Mela as she answers rapid-fire questions about memories, goals, inspiration, and summer plans. Firstly, we talk about her academic career at Notre Dame: majors, coursework, activities, friendships, vibes, and plans. Secondly, I ask Melanie about moving abroad during a pandemic: advice on living alone, keeping in touch, loneliness, and excitement. Thirdly, Mela teaches us how she has such lovely energy: how she deals with stress, stays humble, organizes her life, and makes others feel welcome. Lastly, she asks me questions about moving to France and shares miscellaneous recommendations.
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CHECK OUT THE THINGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE (IN ORDER OF APPEARANCE):
University of Notre Dame
Game of Thrones
The Big Bang Theory
HERE ARE SOME QUOTES I LIKED FROM THIS WEEK’S EPISODE:
"Become best friends with your professors"
"Not everybody thinks your norms are THE norm"
"Learn how to cook, create a routine and be alone"
"Being alone and feeling lonely are different things"
"You can feel miserable when you don’t have anyone, not even yourself"
"I text them good morning and good night every day"
"It’s not my responsibility to educate other people"
"If you don’t check yourself, you will hurt other people"
"I don’t want other people to categorize me because of where I come from, so why would I do that to others?"
"I do keep a spiritual presence in my life"
"Success in life isn’t determined by where you went to school"
"Don’t deny someone else’s truth"
"Once you go abroad, you will have the fortune of realizing who your real friends are"
"True friends don’t need reassurance every single day"
"Sometimes people ask for a level of commitment you just can’t give"
"Not every person you meet will remain in your life"
"Be open to losing some relationships in order to make new ones"
"Be friends with everybody"
"Create tiny goals to motivate your day-to-day"
"I drain my stress energy"
"Be conscious of your prejudice and implicit bias, and be respectful and open-minded"
"Just because I have a routine doesn’t mean I’m not flexible"
"Find people that inspire and motivate you"
"If you don’t feel a bit scared, then you’re not doing the right thing"
"Somebody who is explicitly biased is because they want to"
"When I get feelings of anxiety, I act on them"
"You have to be your own person and catch yourself"
Thanks for tuning in, have a beautiful week!
FOLLOW THE PODCAST’S INSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/theasteapodcast?igshid=r04b2760fkdl
CONTACT ME THROUGH: [email protected] (for business inquiries, sponsorships or to tell me what you think about this podcast!)
SEND ME A VOICE MESSAGE: https://anchor.fm/th351a-beaury/message
CHECK OUT THE DESIGNERS OF MY COVER ART: https://instagram.com/sofiarrublacreative?igshid=1xtsd1w69zkkl
https://instagram.com/cuerpobaldio?igshid=1jq5cb59nm2z
Listen to my other podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3RhYyCBLVwBuNimne4zVCO?si=AG_LzDsuQdqBYedSmFOkfQ
START YOUR PODCAST NOW BY HEADING TO anchor.fm
FOLLOW MELA’S INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/melanie.bg_/?hl=en
CHECK OUT THE THINGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE (IN ORDER OF APPEARANCE):
University of Notre Dame
Game of Thrones
The Big Bang Theory
HERE ARE SOME QUOTES I LIKED FROM THIS WEEK’S EPISODE:
"Become best friends with your professors"
"Not everybody thinks your norms are THE norm"
"Learn how to cook, create a routine and be alone"
"Being alone and feeling lonely are different things"
"You can feel miserable when you don’t have anyone, not even yourself"
"I text them good morning and good night every day"
"It’s not my responsibility to educate other people"
"If you don’t check yourself, you will hurt other people"
"I don’t want other people to categorize me because of where I come from, so why would I do that to others?"
"I do keep a spiritual presence in my life"
"Success in life isn’t determined by where you went to school"
"Don’t deny someone else’s truth"
"Once you go abroad, you will have the fortune of realizing who your real friends are"
"True friends don’t need reassurance every single day"
"Sometimes people ask for a level of commitment you just can’t give"
"Not every person you meet will remain in your life"
"Be open to losing some relationships in order to make new ones"
"Be friends with everybody"
"Create tiny goals to motivate your day-to-day"
"I drain my stress energy"
"Be conscious of your prejudice and implicit bias, and be respectful and open-minded"
"Just because I have a routine doesn’t mean I’m not flexible"
"Find people that inspire and motivate you"
"If you don’t feel a bit scared, then you’re not doing the right thing"
"Somebody who is explicitly biased is because they want to"
"When I get feelings of anxiety, I act on them"
"You have to be your own person and catch yourself"
Thanks for tuning in, have a beautiful week!
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