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Summary
In this conversation, Eddy Thomas and Sira discuss the pervasive issue of sexual abuse and the importance of understanding the psychological impacts of guilt and shame on survivors. They explore the role of men in supporting women, the significance of trust in healing, and practical steps men can take to foster healthy relationships. The discussion emphasizes the need for accountability, awareness of power dynamics, and the importance of open communication in overcoming trauma.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Trauma
02:59 The Pervasiveness of Sexual Abuse
06:06 Understanding Guilt and Shame
09:00 The Importance of Trust in Healing
12:06 The Onion Analogy: Layers of Trauma
14:50 Empowering Women Through Support
17:36 Building Healthy Relationships
20:36 The Role of Men in Supporting Women
23:28 The Impact of Cultural Norms
26:28 Conclusion and Call to Action
32:46 Empowering Women Through Understanding
36:01 Navigating Conversations About Safety and Expression
39:11 The Impact of Upbringing on Power Dynamics
45:33 Recognizing Patterns of Abuse and Control
48:32 Understanding the Roots of Abusive Behavior
58:47 Practical Steps for Supporting Women in Our Lives
Learn More about Eddy's Life and Leadership Coaching: www.eddypaulthomas.com
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Learn more about the Unbroken Place Podcast at: www.eddypaulthomas.com/unbrokenplace
Discover the transformative power of empathy in both our personal lives and the workplace with the following resources:
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Brought to you by Elevate 1 Consulting.
Produced by Say Some Thing Studios.
Music: "Blood" by Anthem of Rain, “Holizna” by HoliznaRAPS, “Too Fly” & "Tide Turns" by Kesta, and "Basurera" by Blue Dot Sessions from the free music archive. This work is openly licensed via CC BY 4.0.
In this conversation, Eddy Thomas and Sira discuss the pervasive issue of sexual abuse and the importance of understanding the psychological impacts of guilt and shame on survivors. They explore the role of men in supporting women, the significance of trust in healing, and practical steps men can take to foster healthy relationships. The discussion emphasizes the need for accountability, awareness of power dynamics, and the importance of open communication in overcoming trauma.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Trauma
02:59 The Pervasiveness of Sexual Abuse
06:06 Understanding Guilt and Shame
09:00 The Importance of Trust in Healing
12:06 The Onion Analogy: Layers of Trauma
14:50 Empowering Women Through Support
17:36 Building Healthy Relationships
20:36 The Role of Men in Supporting Women
23:28 The Impact of Cultural Norms
26:28 Conclusion and Call to Action
32:46 Empowering Women Through Understanding
36:01 Navigating Conversations About Safety and Expression
39:11 The Impact of Upbringing on Power Dynamics
45:33 Recognizing Patterns of Abuse and Control
48:32 Understanding the Roots of Abusive Behavior
58:47 Practical Steps for Supporting Women in Our Lives
Learn More about Eddy's Life and Leadership Coaching: www.eddypaulthomas.com
Give to The Black Missions Museum: www.theblackmissionsmuseum.org
Learn more about the Unbroken Place Podcast at: www.eddypaulthomas.com/unbrokenplace
Discover the transformative power of empathy in both our personal lives and the workplace with the following resources:
Ok...On Second Thought newsletter on Linkedin.
Ok...On Second Thought articles.
Ok...On Second Thought Resources for the Workplace.
Brought to you by Elevate 1 Consulting.
Produced by Say Some Thing Studios.
Music: "Blood" by Anthem of Rain, “Holizna” by HoliznaRAPS, “Too Fly” & "Tide Turns" by Kesta, and "Basurera" by Blue Dot Sessions from the free music archive. This work is openly licensed via CC BY 4.0.
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