What if wedding planning didn’t feel so lonely—or so overwhelming? What if, instead, you could walk into a room full of people who not only understood what you’re going through but wanted to help you make the journey easier, lighter, and more fun?That’s exactly what we set out to create with The Last Hustle Before the Bustle.This episode is a little different. Instead of our usual studio setup, you’ll hear a live recording from an event we hosted right here in the Bagley Building—home to True North Weddings, Northland Special Events, and our sister companies.The idea was simple: gather brides, couples, and wedding professionals together in community. To laugh, learn, and take some of the stress out of planning. We brought in a panel of industry experts—florists, DJs, venue managers, makeup artists, photographers, and more—and let the questions flow. Desi moderated beautifully, and what followed was honest, practical advice mixed with heart and humor.If you couldn’t make it in person, I’m so glad you get to experience it now through this episode.Key Themes + TakeawaysDIY vs Hiring Pros → Time is just as valuable as money. Know where to save and where to invest.Family Dynamics → Not every family looks “traditional.” Communication with vendors can help ease sensitive situations.Vendor Booking Timelines → The earlier the better if you want your dream team—but flexibility and trust go a long way.Trends We Love → Bold colors, party dresses, center dance floors, and even haircut transformations mid-reception.Decision Fatigue → It’s real. Trusting your vendors can help ease the pressure when you’ve simply made too many choices.Community Over Competition → Weddings aren’t meant to be navigated alone—when you lean into support, the whole experience becomes richer.Our Favorite Quotes“If being present matters to you, weigh that against the cost of doing everything yourself.”“Your family doesn’t have to look like the movies—tell your vendors what’s real so they can support you.”“Sometimes the wedding will happen whether you’ve decided or not. That’s when your vendors step in and say: we’ve got this.”“Find the vendor that feels like a match—it’s like dating. The right fit makes everything flow.”“In the end, your day should reflect your story. Not Pinterest. Not anyone else’s expectations. You.”Chapter Markers00:00 – Why this episode is different: our first live recording05:28 – Meet the panel: planners, florists, DJs, makeup artists, and more08:20 – DIY vs florist: how to know what’s right for you14:37 – Navigating tricky family dynamics during portraits and planning22:11 – When to book your vendors (and in what order)27:26 – Wedding trends we’re loving right now35:12 – Dealing with overbearing opinions (with grace and boundaries)46:26 – Decision fatigue and learning to trust your vendors49:48 – Why finding the right vendor “match” matters mostYour TurnAs you listen to this episode, I invite you to reflect:👉 What parts of your wedding day matter most to you, and where can you give yourself permission to let go?Write it down. Share it with your partner. And most importantly—protect the joy of your planning journey.💛 Stay Connected with Mariah & True North WeddingsWebsite: truenorthweddingsduluth.comFollow Mariah on Instagram: @mariahmckechnieFollow True North Weddings: @truenorthweddingsduluthIf today’s episode made you feel seen or supported, we’d love it if you left a quick ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review on Apple or Spotify. It helps more couples find their True North. 💍

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