What do kids want in a family? The interesting thing is they are too young to know. They will come up with all kinds of answers that are often hilarious. However, if you dig deep, you find out that kids want parents who are constant, consistent, and calm.This is the coolest thing you can do for your family. Too many parents today want to be “liked” or focus their whole lives on their kids. This isn’t good because it puts the kids in charge and they become the center of the family. Their mindset will get messed up and they will think they are the center of the universe.What kids want and what they need are two different things and it's up to you to work to give them what they need instead of what they want. Yep, this means we have to do the work, but we are men and that’s what we do.ConstantKids want constant predictable parentsThis doesn’t mean boring, but not full of dramaTheir life has good routines and the kids are includedThey want parents who love them and love each otherThis constant love feeds their lifeThey want parents who act consistent and don’t “change” when the kid’s friends are around or when they get around other adultsConsistentWe should be present at our current age and love life where we are as adultsOwn the fact that you are a dad and embrace itIf all you talk about are the “good old days” you are communicating that becoming an adult stinksLet them know that as they get older they gain wisdom and that is better than being youngThis means we may have to do things to work on our lives and fix itIf you need help in areas of your life, get the help, and don’t expect your child to “fix” you or to live through themCalmLet them see that you are not living on emotional highs and lowsYou should not act like a middle schoolerHelp them see the long-term view of lifeBe empathetic but also help them see the things you have learnedThese stories help them get perspective on where they are atTell the stories before they need them so they can remember themBe the adult. They need your love and empathy, but they don’t need you to jump on the emotional roller coaster with themCHALLENGE:Do you need to be more constant, consistent, or calm?Pick one area to focus on so you can grow and improve as a parentRESOURCES TO HELP YOU THRIVE AS A MAN========================Thriving Man Coaching Resources4D MODEL FREE PDFLearn about the 4 fundamentals of a Successful LifeDiscover OUR SPEAKING AND HOW WE HAVE EMPOWERED THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE ACROSS THE WORLD

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