Get your free Personal Reboot Guide at www.theconfidentman.meCheck out more resources to help you as a man at David Maxwell CoachingFinding the right woman is something many guys spend a whole lot of time and money going after. They love the buzz of relationships so they keep going from relationship to relationship thinking they will find THE ONE! The problem is this is the wrong focus. If we want to find the right woman, we have to make sure we have the right mindset or we will be wasting our time and energy. The One Big TruthThe one big truth that every guy needs to learn and repeat to himself is: SHE WON'T COMPLETE YOUThe problem with the ONE attitude is it gives us an avenue for blameWhen we hold someone up as the ONE, we are actually giving them god-like statusOur completeness isn't based on our relational statusMen looking for completeness outside themselves give up control The passive problem is from men who aren’t complete within The more complete we are as men, the better our relationships will be, and the more likely we will find a woman who fits us the bestThe Mom SyndromeThe mom syndrome is something many men live in but they are in denialThey think the right girl will motivate them to do better in life"I just need the right girl to make me want to be a good guy"This is lazy and gives up our own personal responsibilityChange for men has to come from withinExpecting a girl to motivate us is asking her to be our momExpecting girls to be a mom to us is lazy and will build resentment in the relationshipWe have to man up and take full responsibility for ourselvesThe Past GhostsMany guys have a hard time finding the right woman for them because they are living with the ghosts of past girls in their lifePast Hurts Don't Help Future RelationshipsMen must take the time to deal with the pain of past relationships or they will affect their future onesCounselors, therapists, online resources like www.boundaries.meRebounding often leads to the same mistakesBitterness does not influence great relationship choices

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