Get your free Personal Reboot Guide at www.theconfidentman.meCheck out more resources to help you as a man at David Maxwell CoachingBeing the man women want does not start with thinking about what women want! It starts with us developing ourselves as men. Too many men are living their lives based on what they "think" women want. This leads to confusion and pain from painful breakups and divorces. Men must stop focusing on what women want and must start focusing on three key things to develop as men. As they do this, they will automatically become more attractive to the right kind of woman.Quit Being What They Want As men, we must quit adapting to every whim we think women want or we will never be the men we were designed to beWe'll never figure out who we are if we are always playing a partWearing masks keeps us from developing intimacy in our relationshipsWhen a man is constantly changing based on a girl, he is not taking the time to figure himself outReal serving is done from strength and securityManipulative serving is done from insecurity and controlMen must go on the journey of figuring themselves out or they won't know how to authentically connect with a womanStart Building Our SecurityInsecurity is one of the biggest problems among men todayMen are controlled by women Men change for women based on their own insecurityWe must get to the foundation of who we are as menOur security is built on our foundation as men: our character, our worldview, our purposeMen often hide from this kind of deep thinking through the distractions of lifeMen who don't develop security, never grow up and mature as menDrive Our Own LifeWe must decide as men to drive our own life by taking responsibility for our actions and how we liveQuality Women want a man who knows who he is and what he is doing with his lifeMen who are hyper-control freaks often exhibit signs of extreme insecurity and control is how they try to keep order in their worldA man who is driving his life knows that he can control himself so he doesn't waste his energy on things he can't controlResponsible men can live authentically because they are constantly developing themselves and growing themselvesDriving our own life as men are contingent on having a direction to goMen who drive their life don't get caught up in the hedonistic trap so many men fall into

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