Listen "Why people leave our bubble—and how to stop blaming ourselves while building healthier circles"
Episode Synopsis
Send us a textEver notice how certain people quietly step out of your life right when you start honoring yourself? We unpack that shift with open hands and clear language, exploring how fear, self-worth, and boundaries shape the bubble we keep—and the company we attract. Rather than spiraling into self-blame, we look at drifting relationships as data: signs that your standards are changing and your energy is recalibrating.We dig into the difference between opinions and boundaries, and why real boundaries always come with consequences you can calmly carry out. You’ll hear practical ways to communicate without ultimatums, navigate heated topics with intention, and negotiate when both sides want a win. We also challenge the fixer mindset and codependency patterns that masquerade as compassion, offering simple checkpoints to know when you’re helping—and when you’re rescuing.If fear has kept you frozen—worried about being alone, replaying the “why,” or yo-yoing on your standards—this conversation gives you a grounded path forward. Learn how to ask “why” for insight, not for victimhood. Practice “leave no doubt” clarity that protects your peace and preserves dignity on both sides. And if you’re leveling up your social circle, we talk about the awkward middle: how to fill the quiet with better habits, higher-vibe rooms, and people who thrive without drama.We also share a quick update on our Spiritual Grind app and how creators can feature their tarot or oracle decks through our Creator Spotlight. If you’re an advertiser or investor, there’s a place for you too just go to www.thesaltytarot.net and you can find the tabs that will take you to the information. While your there you can also subscribe and get notice on when the Salty Tarot app drops.If this resonates, subscribe, share with a friend who’s reworking their circle, and leave a review with one boundary you’re honoring this week—we’d love to hear it.Support the show
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