What if the question you’ve been asking — “Are they the one?” — is actually limiting your clarity? In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we flip the script and dive into better, wiser questions that lead to real peace in godly relationships.⏱️ 00:00 – IntroductionWhy this conversation matters. Letting go of pressure, confusion, and false expectations.⏱️ 02:30 – Why “Are They the One?” Isn’t Always Helpful • Where the question comes from • Why it creates pressure and anxiety • How it leads people to ignore red flags⏱️ 07:00 – What to Ask Instead: “Does This Relationship Reflect God’s Character?” • Spiritual fruit vs. feelings • The difference between peace and emotional attachment📖 Matthew 7:16⏱️ 12:30 – God Doesn’t Always Drop “The One”—He Teaches Us to Choose • Free will and divine wisdom • Ruth & Boaz: no loud prophecy, just clear alignment📖 Proverbs 19:21⏱️ 17:00 – Questions That Bring Clarity (Instead of Confusion) • Are we equally yoked? • Do they push me toward Christ or away? • Am I more myself or more anxious around them?⏱️ 23:30 – What If You Thought They Were “The One”… But Now You’re Not Sure? • Discerning between emotion and instruction • How to surrender that person to God and find peace again⏱️ 28:00 – Final Encouragement • God’s peace is better than your fantasy • It’s okay to ask better questions — clarity lives there📖 Isaiah 55:8-9🎧 Click the link in bio to listen now.Tag someone who needs to hear this kind of relationship wisdom today.#RelationshipTalksWithVikkie #ChristianDating #GodlyRelationships #ClarityOverConfusion #FaithBeforeFeelings #ChristianSingles

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