What If You’re the Problem in All Your Relationships?

13/08/2025 6 min Episodio 11

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Episode Synopsis

This episode isn’t for the faint-hearted — it’s for the honest-hearted.What if the common pattern in all your failed relationships… is you?Not in a way that brings shame, but in a way that brings healing and growth.In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we unpack the courage it takes to look inward, how to identify harmful behaviors, and most importantly — how to break the cycle and become emotionally healthy for real love.🎧 Timestamps:⏱️ 00:00 – IntroductionA heart-to-heart moment. Why this topic matters more than we admit.⏱️ 02:40 – Facing Yourself Without Shame​ God isn’t condemning you — He’s inviting you to grow​ Self-awareness is a gift, not a punishment📖 Romans 8:1 — “There is therefore now no condemnation…”⏱️ 06:20 – Signs You Might Be the Common Denominator​ Constant miscommunication?​ Fear of vulnerability?​ Quick to walk away or shut down emotionally?​ Attracted to brokenness?⏱️ 11:50 – The Power of Accountability​ Who checks you when you’re out of line?​ Do you have safe people who help you see what you can’t?📖 Proverbs 27:6 — “Wounds from a friend can be trusted…”⏱️ 16:40 – Healing the Root, Not Just the Fruit​ Your triggers are telling a story​ Addressing childhood wounds, abandonment issues, and pride⏱️ 22:15 – Practical Steps to Grow & Heal​ Get therapy, get discipled, get honest​ Journal patterns from your past relationships​ Invite God into your blind spots📖 Psalm 139:23–24 — “Search me, God, and know my heart…”⏱️ 27:00 – Final Encouragement​ You are not doomed to repeat the same story​ If you’re willing to confront the truth, you’re already on the road to change​ Don’t let pride block your breakthrough✨ Don’t forget to subscribe, rate the podcast, leave a comment, and share someone who needs this episode.