Listen "Mac And Cheese Starts Fights, Chitlins End Nights"
Episode Synopsis
Bells, games, and real talk, this one feels like the living room after dinner when the stories get louder and the truths get clearer. We start with holiday week chaos; team charcuterie, dress-up days, and a White Elephant that actually makes sense, then dig into something deeper: how to support teens and adults in crisis without slipping into fixer mode. You’ll hear practical, compassionate tips for regulating emotions, honoring agency, and spotting the moments where presence matters more than solutions.Work stress takes the mic with a stack of IEPs, lost notes, and that sinking office chair, but the remedy isn’t hustle. It’s small wins, rest you don’t have to earn, and honest check-ins about portion creep and physical therapy progress. From there, we hit the fun button: rapid-fire Black family trivia and couples’ finish-the-sentence. Expect debates over mac and cheese, the universal “we’ll see” translation, thermostat politics, and why “I’m fine” rarely means fine. It’s playful, specific, and quietly instructive about how couples communicate, how families move, and how culture shapes the punchlines.We swap the worst gift stories, defend the sacredness of leftovers, and side-eye reckless holiday drivers and break-room fish with workable fixes, lids, lemons, and a little courtesy go a long way. Then we close with what lasts: choosing rest over relentless motion, setting boundaries without apology, and being your whole self, even if your voice sounds country and your joy is loud. Faith threads it together with a reminder that life rarely follows our ideal plan, yet there are always ways and means to get through the tight spots.If this gave you a laugh, a tool, or a nudge to choose peace, tap follow, share with a friend, and leave a quick review, it helps more folks find a refreshingly normal moment in their week.Send us your Questions or Comments and we’ll answer them on the show. Don't forget to Like, Comment, Share, and Subscribe. Thank you for listening!
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