On this episode of the Raider Ramble Podcast, Head of School Tom Flemma has an in-depth conversation with Dr. David Yeager about his groundbreaking book, "10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People." Discover key insights and strategies for encouraging and inspiring young individuals in this engaging chat.Here are the key takeaways we have for you:Mentor Mindset: Great leaders in various fields employ a "mentor mindset," maintaining high standards while providing the necessary support for young people to meet these standards.Enforcer vs. Protector Mindset: Common alternative approaches are the "enforcer mindset" (high standards, low support) and the "protector mindset" (low standards, high support), both of which are less effective than the mentor mindset.High Standards, High Support: The optimal approach combines high expectations with ample support, challenging the binary choice between being authoritarian or overly lenient.Adolescent Capability: Contrary to popular misconceptions of the adolescent brain as hormonally compromised, young people are capable of making excellent decisions when properly motivated and framed.Societal View on Adolescents: Society often undervalues adolescents, viewing them as problematic, which influences how adults interact with them.Status and Respect as Motivators: Adolescents are highly sensitive to their social standing and respect, which can be leveraged positively to encourage desirable behaviors.Avoiding "Groansplaining": Communicating in a way that respects adolescents' need for respect and status, avoiding condescending explanations, is crucial.Reframing for Respect and Status: Behavior that adults desire from adolescents should be framed in a way that aligns with their deep-seated need for respect and status.Encouraging Agency: While not advocating for a lack of structure, it's important to find ways to enable adolescents to have a sense of agency, helping them feel pride and accomplishment from their own actions.Balance in Authority: Effective parenting or leadership involves a balance where young people feel empowered but within a framework where adults still guide and set boundaries.LINKS10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young Peoplehttps://www.simonandschuster.com/books/10-to-25/David-Yeager/9781668023884FAN (Family Action Network) https://www.familyactionnetwork.net

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