In this episode, we hear Koby Falks's story of finding authenticity and strength by challenging toxic masculine stereotypes.  Koby is an adult content creator, entrepreneur and advocate for authenticity in the adult content industry.  Koby and I muse over topics as diverse as when masculinity turns toxic, how negating sex negates ourselves, and what it means to be a good bottom.REFERENCES:Koby Falks Linktree: https://linktr.ee/KobyFalksFollow Koby on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChRpGMrLi-pnJFZCdP3e1TgFollow Koby on TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@kobyfalksofficialFollow Koby on Facebook: https://facebook.com/kobyfalksdaddyFollow Koby on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/kobyfalksFollow Koby on Threads:  https://www.threads.net/@kobyfalks(00:00) - Opening credits

(00:37) - Show opening

(01:32) - Introducing Koby Falks

(02:43) - The pandemic brings new opportunities

(07:07) - Instead of external, look at the internal

(12:13) - Dismissing what we don't understand

(18:13) - Masculinity isn't bottling up, it's showing up

(21:54) - Avoiding the masculine to feel more comfortable

(26:47) - Rigidity breeds toxicity

(32:35) - Being seen helps others be seen

(36:05) - Bisexual stigmatized in the Queer community

(41:21) - Challenging our own processes

(43:58) - Dominant is not always masculine

(45:54) - Controlling sex means controlling identity

(50:19) - Power in the feminine

(56:25) - Turns out we know about sex

(58:21) - How to find Koby Falks on the internet

(59:58) - Show closing

(01:00:55) - Closing credits


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