34. Connection Before Correction: Why 'Help First, Teach Later' is Better Than Lecturing

31/10/2025 25 min

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Episode Synopsis

If you’ve ever tried to teach your child a lesson while they were melting down - and wondered why it didn’t work - this episode is for you. 💛We’re unpacking one of the most powerful shifts in parenting: help first, teach later. Because here’s the truth: you cannot comfort and correct at the same time. When emotions are high, your child’s brain can’t learn. What they need in that moment isn’t a lecture - it’s connection.In this episode, I’m sharing:Why we feel the urge to “teach in the moment” (and how it backfires)What happens in your child’s brain during dysregulationHow to respond with empathy without “letting things slide”Real-life examples of what help first, teach later looks likeHow connection builds lasting trust - and makes your words land laterThis simple but profound mindset shift will change how you show up as a parent, and how your kids experience safety, accountability, and love.✨ Because connection isn’t the reward for good behavior - it’s the foundation for growth.♥ Your Parent Coach, Brittney  For free resources, online courses, or to join the mailing list, please visit theparentinglab.orgFollow on Instagram @TheParentingLabPodcastEmail Brittney: [email protected]

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