Are you constantly saying yes only to look back on your week feeling tired, overwhelmed, and resentful? In this episode, host Autumn Akins walks through a powerful, real-time lesson she is learning: the importance of saying no more often.   Autumn dives into the common reasons why moms feel compelled to overcommit—from guilt and the fear of missing out to a simple craving for connection. She shares her own pattern of "one small yes" snowballing into an overstuffed week and offers a clear reminder: "Everything that you say yes to is a no to something else, usually your energy or your rest or your peace".   This episode is a gentle but firm guide to breaking the cycle of living in "reaction mode" and starting to live intentionally. Autumn provides five practical steps for strengthening your "no muscle," including setting weekly limits, pausing before you respond, and remembering that you are the one who carries the consequence of every overcommitment. The ultimate takeaway? You don't need a packed calendar to be a good, present mom—sometimes, the holiest thing you can do for your family is simply protect your peace.What You’ll Hear:Why "yes" often feels like a default for moms, driven by guilt, loneliness, or not wanting kids to miss out.  The difference between being a "good mom" and a "tired, stretched thin mom".  Autumn’s personal confession about how she over-fills her own week with things like quick grocery runs that turn into multi-store errands.  The reminder that saying yes to one thing means saying no to your peace, rest, or energy.  Why the "invisible race" to do the most is a myth with no prize for the winner.  Book recommendations that have shaped Autumn's perspective on slowing down: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry and Essentialism.  Signs that your "yes muscle" is overdeveloped, such as resenting plans or feeling tired before the day begins. How saying no more often surprisingly makes your life feel fuller, not emptier, because it creates space for presence and calm.Key Takeaways:Less but Better: This motto from Essentialism applies beautifully to motherhood, resulting in better energy and connection with those who matter most.  Protection is Power: Sometimes, the most important thing you can do for your family is simply protect your peace.  Your Value is Not Your Productivity: Stop living as if your value is tied to what you can produce.  The Holiday Challenge: Say no to one thing that drains you each week leading up to Christmas and watch the space it creates.Resources:The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark ComeEssentialism by Greg McKeownhttps://autumnakins.com/reclaimConnect with Me:Let’s continue the conversation! Follow me on Instagram at @whatautumndoes for more tips, encouragement, and personal reflections on motherhood.Subscribe & Review:Enjoyed this episode? Please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps other moms discover The Motherhood Process and join our growing community.Join Me Next Week:Next week, we’re diving into creating intentional routines that simplify life and bring more peace to your home. Don’t miss it!

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