#7 - The Myth of Having It All: Real Talk on Balance, Burnout & Boundaries

04/06/2025 19 min Episodio 7
#7 - The Myth of Having It All: Real Talk on Balance, Burnout & Boundaries

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Is “having it all” really achievable—or is it an unrealistic expectation that’s quietly driving women to exhaustion?In this insightful episode of The Modern Midlife Collective, Dr. Jillian Woodruff, board-certified gynecologist and menopause specialist, and Dr. Ade Akindipe, doctor of nursing practice and functional medicine expert, explore the modern-day myth of having it all. From managing careers, families, and personal wellness to maintaining relationships and societal expectations, they provide a grounded conversation on what it truly means to thrive in midlife.Drawing from personal experiences and clinical expertise, Dr. Jillian and Dr. Ade discuss how redefining success, setting boundaries, and learning to delegate can help protect mental and physical health. They also dive into the importance of self-awareness, the power of saying no, and how to reclaim time and energy for what matters most.This episode offers practical strategies and empowering insights for women navigating the complex demands of midlife—reminding them that it’s not only okay to prioritize their well-being, but essential.If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend or colleague who may benefit from this conversation. Subscribe to The Modern Midlife Collective and leave us a review to help more women discover empowering content designed to support their journey through midlife and beyond.Highlights: Redefining “having it all” in a way that supports health and sustainabilityRecognizing the early signs of burnout—and how to address them proactivelyThe importance of boundaries and how to set them without guiltPractical ways to delegate both at home and in businessHow comparison undermines confidence and peace of mindThe role of intentional self-care in preventing overwhelmTools and mindset shifts to support balance in a high-demand lifeGet to know the doctors behind the insights of The Modern Midlife Collective Podcast:Dr. Aderonke "Ade" Akindipe, DNP, MBA, APRN, FNP-CA board-certified nurse practitioner and founder and medical director at Rejuvenate Health & Wellness. Dr. Ade Akindipe created The Elevated Woman Method to help women move beyond quick fixes and rediscover what it means to thrive in their bodies. With years of experience in functional medicine and lifestyle coaching, she brings a compassionate, evidence-led approach to women’s health.  Dr. Ade believes women aren’t broken—they just need the right map back to themselves. Resources and links from Dr. Ade🧾 Blood Sugar Balancing Blueprint: https://theelevatedwomanproject.com/episode-5-102825💬 Book your Free 60 Metabolic Clarity Session: https://l.bttr.to/sXiAWJillian Woodruff, MD, FACOG, NCMP, is a board-certified gynecologist, surgeon, and nationally certified menopause provider specializing in general and cosmetic gynecologic surgery. As Chief Medical Officer of Modern Gynecology & Skin, she specializes in hormone therapy, sexual medicine, and aesthetic treatments to help women thrive. She is the host of “Line One” on Alaska Public Media, an NPR-affiliated medical affairs radio show, and co-founder of The Women’s WELL Foundation, dedicated to women’s health education and access. As the co-host of The Modern Midlife Collective, she brings expertise in hormones, sexual health, aesthetics, and holistic practices, teaching women to advocate for their health and well-being in midlife with confidence. Passionate about global health, lifestyle medicine, and education, she enjoys traveling, humanitarian work, studying languages, and family life while empowering women to take charge of their health.

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