Listen "Deal With It!"
Episode Synopsis
In this episode of The MindShifter Audio Blog, Fatima Bey explores the danger of avoidance and why ignoring issues only allows them to grow. Through a simple but powerful story, she shows how small, unaddressed problems can quietly turn into life-disrupting patterns.This reflection challenges you to face what you’ve been avoiding before it becomes something far more damaging.🔗 Read the full blog post: https://www.fatimabey.com/deal-with-it990e30f3Chapters0:00 Introduction0:13 The instinct to avoid discomfort0:39 A small wound ignored1:02 When avoidance leads to infection1:40 The science of untreated problems2:18 Common sense we fail to apply2:34 Avoidance in everyday life2:53 How issues grow when ignored3:14 Relationships and avoided conversations3:38 Childhood issues and present behavior4:00 Deal with it or it will deal with youMindShift Moments• Avoidance does not remove problems• Small issues grow when ignored• Pain is often a signal to act• Uncomfortable conversations prevent bigger damage• Facing issues leads to freedomQuotes“Deal with the issue or the issue will deal with you.”“What you ignore doesn’t go away. It grows.”“Avoidance turns small wounds into infections.”Read the full transcript on Listen NotesThank you for listening.For more MindShifting content and resources: https://www.fatimabey.comSubscribe to The MindShifter Blog: https://www.fatimabey.com/blog1#1701160625Explore MindShift Coaching and other services: https://www.fatimabey.com/mindshift-coachingSupport The MindShifter Audio Blog: https://www.fatimabey.com/audio-blog-support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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