Walking on Eggshells What to Do When Your Boss Has a Fragile Ego

04/11/2025 32 min
Walking on Eggshells What to Do When Your Boss Has a Fragile Ego

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If you've ever tiptoed around a leader's ego, reworded feedback ten different ways, or held back a good idea just to avoid a blow-up, this episode is for you.We're pulling back the curtain on executive ego fragility: what causes it, how to spot it, and how to deal with it without losing your mind (or your voice).Here's what you'll take away:The root causes behind fragile egos in leadership (hint: it often starts long before the corner office)The subtle and not-so-subtle signals you should watch forTactical ways to work with someone whose ego might be getting in the way of good decisions, feedback, or, you know... basic human interactionAnd if you're thinking, "Why do I have to adapt to their fragile ego? Why isn't it on them?"... yep, we cover that too.If you've ever said, "I can't say that, they'll take it the wrong way," this one's for you. And if you haven't and don't expect to ever run into ego-driven leaders, then just send it to a friend who has. They'll thank you. Listen now on our Website, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube.— RESOURCES MENTIONED — Grab the free New Manager Toolkit mentioned in the episode: archova.org/freetoolkitsLearn how to turn your 1-on-1 meetings from time wasters, awkward moments, status updates, or non-existent into your most important and valuable meeting with your directs all week. Learn more at: http://archova.org/1on1-courseLet us know what you think by sending an email to [email protected] a Leadership Strategy Call with Ramona HERE. Grab your copy of Ramona's best-selling book 'The Confident & Competent New Manager: How to Rapidly Rise to Success in Your First Leadership Role': amzn.to/3TuOdcP — OTHER EPISODES YOU MIGHT LIKE —Episode 231 - When The Ego Dictates Your PrioritiesEpisode 73 - How Great Leaders Control Their Egos — WHAT’S NEXT? — Learn more about our leadership development programs, coaching and workshops at archova.org. Grab your copy of Ramona's best-selling book 'The Confident & Competent New Manager: How to Rapidly Rise to Success in Your First Leadership Role': amzn.to/3TuOdcP Want to better understand your leadership style and patterns? Take our free quiz to discover your Manager Archetype and learn how to play to your strengths and uncover your blind spots: archova.org/quiz Are you in your first manager role and don't want to mess it up? Watch our FREE Masterclass and discover the 4 shifts to become a leader people love to work for: archova.org/masterclass Love the podcast and haven’t left a review yet? All you have to do is go to ramonashaw.com/itunes and to our Spotify Page, and give your honest review. Thanks for your support of this show! If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories, and tag me @ramona.shaw.leadership or DM me on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/ramona-shaw* Disclaimer: Shownotes may contain affiliate links. That means that I am awarded a small commission for purchases made through them, at no added cost to you.