110. How Decentering Men Can Transform Your Relationships & Your Life

12/11/2025 39 min

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You’ve probably heard the phrase “decenter men” — but what does that really mean?In this video, I break down what decentering men actually looks like in real life — and why it’s not about hating men or avoiding relationships. It’s about re-centering yourself.We’ll talk about:✨ The real definition of “decentering men” and who coined the phrase (Charlie Taylor)✨ Why it’s a lifestyle, not a temporary phase✨ The challenges women face when learning to live this way — and how to work through them✨ The common misconceptions (like “you can’t want love and decenter men”)✨ Why women were conditioned to center men in the first place✨ And how to date while decentering menThis isn’t about becoming “anti-men.”It’s about becoming pro-you.You can want love and still decenter men.You can be soft and still have boundaries.You can date and still live from your center.Because once you make peace your priority — everything changes.———📖Get the book: https://amzn.to/4phcByDThe journal: https://amzn.to/3VGXS2n✨ Let’s connect:💜1:1 coaching &BONUS podcast episodes https://www.patreon.com/Ivebeenthatgirl💜books, coaching and more:https://linktr.ee/ivebeenthatgirl.netAuthors page: https://www.amazon.com/author/kindalld💜MY SOCIALS:YouTube: https://youtube.com/@ivebeenthatgirl?si=ztPs0PVePJP-q6VrI’ve Been That Girl, too Instagram: (151K followers) https://www.instagram.com/ivebeenthatgirltoo/TikTok: (42.7K Followers) https://www.tiktok.com/@ivebeenthatgirl?_t=8s8vdJSMVZv&_r=1Threads: (35K followers) https://www.threads.net/@ivebeenthatgirltoo?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==Business Inquiries:https://linktr.ee/ivebeenthatgirl.net(Click the envelope icon at the top of the site)

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