Outward success can be an elegant disguise for deep distress. We sit down with fellow clinicians-in-training: Ryan Ramos, Steffan Piper, Mady George and Stephen Crooms to unpack The Double Life of a High Functioning Alcoholic and explore how achievement, status, and social rituals can keep people sick while everything looks fine on paper. From acute care units to youth DBT groups, we share what we see in the room: spotless résumés, strong eye contact, and carefully curated stories that unravel when you ask the right questions—or simply offer a safe place to answer honestly.Our conversation traces the invisible scaffolding that holds denial in place. Alcohol culture normalizes excess at work and at home; gender scripts reward stoicism and recruit caretakers; wealth and location buffer consequences long enough to blur the “bottom.” We dig into intergenerational patterns and the way shame breeds secrecy, then bring in a different lens: attunement. Real happiness tracks with connection and co-regulation, and intoxication blocks that subtle exchange. When alcohol becomes a proxy for closeness, marriages strain, parenting goes distant, and teams bond over drinks instead of trust.On the clinical side, we lean into compassion over confrontation. Labels can shut doors, so we start with autonomy, curiosity, and DBT’s both-and stance: what you did makes sense and change is needed. We talk tone, safety, and the kind of genuine presence that lets hard truths land without shame. You’ll hear practical moves—brief screening, trauma-informed pacing, psychoeducation on withdrawal—and a humbling story of 47 years of sobriety that challenges assumptions about which substances are “harder” to quit. Along the way, we share how training reshapes relationships, as boundaries strengthen and party culture loses its pull.If you’re navigating high-functioning addiction, supporting someone who is, or simply curious about how clinicians think through these challenges, this conversation offers a clear, compassionate map. If the episode resonates, follow the show, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might need a gentler way in.

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