How many times have you heard: “It’s not you, it’s me”? Or its twin: “It’s all about you”?Here’s the paradox — both are true. Every experience we live is born within us. What we feel, react to, and hold onto is ours to own. The other person is often just a bystander in our inner drama.In this episode, we’ll break down:The Paradox of Ownership: why both “it’s not you” and “it’s all about you” are equally true.Projection vs. Responsibility: how blaming others hides unprocessed disorder in ourselves.The Relationship Example: how two partners can each think it’s about the other, when really it’s always about themselves.The Sovereignty Shift: seeing what’s yours to carry and what belongs to someone else.By the end, you’ll have a sharper lens for relationships — with yourself, and with others — no matter the level of connection.Support the showWhat is The Formula? It’s a set of standards you hold for yourself that reflect your level of integrity & character forged from the level of accountability and responsibility you’ve created in your life by the choices you’ve made in your own self-interest. 👇 CONNECT WITH ME 👇 The Christmas Cookie – Stories from the Counter On Amazon The Christmas Cookie – Stories from the Counter On Lulu.com 📧 Email: [email protected] 🎙️ Buzzsprout: Support 🍎 Apple Podcasts: Apple podcast 🔗 Website: Iconic Freedom on Buzz 🐦 X: @freedomaz0704 📸 Instagram: Instagram 📘 Facebook: Iconic Freedom on Facebook 🎥 YouTube: Iconic Freedom on YouTube 🗯️ Truth Social: Iconic Freedom on Truth Social

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