It’s the ultimate mom guilt trap: “If I love my kids, why do I still want to escape them?” In this episode, Annie and Katelynn are getting honest and unfiltered about the tension between loving your children fiercely… and still desperately needing space. If you’ve ever hidden in the bathroom for five minutes of silence (or screamed into a pillow between toddler tantrums), this one’s for you. Let’s talk about: The myth of “24/7 maternal joy” Sensory overload, overstimulation, and why your brain feels like a browser with 100 tabs open Creating guilt-free rest plans (even if you’re the default parent) Real-life recharge rituals that actually work when you're touched out and burned out This episode is a warm reminder: you’re a human, not a robot, and taking breaks makes you a better mom—not a worse one.   QUOTES “You can love your kids with your whole heart and still fantasize about a solo vacation.” - Annie “Being everything to everyone isn’t heroic—it’s exhausting.” - Katelynn “You don’t need to be available every second to be a good mom.” - Annie “Rest isn’t a reward. It’s a requirement.” - Katelynn “Default parent doesn’t mean sacrificial parent.” - Annie   TAKEAWAYS 1️⃣ You can adore your kids and still feel overwhelmed. Those truths don’t cancel each other out. 2️⃣ You’re not broken—you’re burned out. There’s a big difference, and it matters. 3️⃣ Being “on” 24/7 isn’t sustainable. Even the most devoted parents need margin. 4️⃣ Start with micro-breaks. You don’t need a spa weekend—just 10 minutes of real space can help your nervous system reset. 5️⃣ You don’t need to “deserve” rest. You’re allowed to care for yourself without earning it.   FEATURED CHAOS ANTHEM “I Am Light” by India.Arie This week’s chaos anthem is a soulful reminder that your worth isn’t measured by your productivity. You are light. You are love. You are still you underneath the chaos. 🎧 You can find it (and all our episode anthems) on The Chaos Commanders: Season One playlists available on Apple Music, Spotify, and Amazon Music. CONNECT WITH US Follow the chaos in real time: 📸 Instagram: @thechaoscommanders 📘 Facebook: The Chaos Commanders Podcast🌐 Website: thechaoscommanders.com SUBSCRIBE AND REVIEW Love what you’re hearing? Hit subscribe and never miss an episode. Your support helps more moms command the chaos—one real-life rhythm at a time.  

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