Process Over Outcome: Helping Teens Chase Reps, Not TrophiesEvery report card, trophy, or follower count is just a price tag on the real currency: a teenager’s daily effort. In this episode, teen life-coach and high-school teacher Teshan Fernando shows parents, mentors, and educators how to spotlight the process behind every success—so teens learn to value practice, consistency, and resilience above quick wins.What You’ll HearWhy “grade worship” backfires and how to shift your praise toward effort and study habitsThe science of lagging indicators: today’s results are last year’s routines in disguiseA step-by-step framework for critiquing behavior without triggering egoPractical scripts for rewarding reps, not results, at home and on the fieldHow a process-first mindset protects teens from burnout, perfectionism, and fear of failureKey TakeawaysReward effort, not endpoints: celebrate consistent practice, honest reflection, and smart risk-taking.Model what you preach: teens copy your reaction to wins and losses more than your words.Critique the system, not the self: focus feedback on habits and strategies, never on worth or identity.Connect & Grow• Free weekly newsletter for parents: teshanfernando.com• Facebook community: Teshan Fernando Life Coaching• For coaching inquiries, email [email protected] teens, process over outcome, growth mindset, teenage study habits, teen resilience, coaching teens, mentorship strategies, Teshan Fernando podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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