MVP: Tantrums v Meltdowns

01/07/2025 17 min Episodio 173
MVP: Tantrums v Meltdowns

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Episode Synopsis

To the untrained or inexperienced eye, tantrums and meltdowns usually look very much the same. If something looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and talks like a duck, you are going to conclude it’s a duck. But when it comes to tantrums and meltdowns, this isn’t the case.Although tantrums and meltdowns may look similar, they are actually very different. However, the fact that they appear similar can create a lot of misunderstanding and suffering for us as moms of children with Autism. So how can you tell whether your child is having a tantrum or a meltdown, and how do you deal with them appropriately while being conscious of other people’s opinions? That’s what I’m teaching you in this week’s episode. In this episode, I share the similarities and differences between tantrums and meltdowns, help you normalize the experience of an Autism meltdown, and assist you in dealing with individuals who may not understand. Discover how to think about and respond to the different behaviors your child exhibits, some of the thoughts that may come up when your child is having a tantrum or a meltdown, and how to use what I’m teaching you this week to be an ambassador for parents of a child with Autism. Summer is the perfect time to start coaching with me! We can transform how you show up to your experience of parenting a child with Autism, and equip you with the tools you need to best support yourself no matter what is happening. If you’re interested in changing the trajectory of your summer right now, click here to schedule a consult.What You’ll Learn from this Episode:Some of the typical behaviors that appear in both tantrums and meltdowns.Why a meltdown is not a teachable moment.How to deal with Autism meltdowns in a way that helps both you and your child. Why so many people associate screaming, yelling, and uncooperative behavior with a bad kid, or a bad parent. How to tune out other people’s opinions of your child’s meltdown.