From the "soulmate" myth to the hypercritical “red flag” culture, in this episode we dive deep into the powerful dating “meta-narrative” that’s likely setting you up for failure. 
We’ll unpack how social conditioning and viral dating advice have made us more judgmental, often interpreting harmless quirks or insecurities as fatal flaws. Are we over-analyzing every interaction? Are “red flags” helpful measures, or are they just fueling a never-ending cycle of mistrust and discontent?
While important to carefully weigh recurring behaviors or blindspots that may indicate a lack of health and maturity, this process shouldn't be confused with clinging to an over-romanticized standard for the "ideal" spouse. 
We discuss the importance of looking beyond superficial judgments and focusing on values, health, and honest communication. We’ll also explore why it’s essential to engage with the person across from you, instead of keeping your hand hovering over the eject button. Relationships are complex and worth the work—so let’s replace the "red-flag" radar with a healthier approach that allows space for growth and grace. Because relationships that are built on finding fault never last.

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