If love hurts, confuses, and drains you—it’s not love. It’s time to plan your exit and reclaim your life. 💪Host Lisa Urbanski sits down with author and recovery coach Jodi Pavlock to share a clear, compassionate guide to escaping narcissistic relationships—safely and for good. Drawing on Jodi’s 9-year journey, you’ll learn what to do before, during, and after leaving: from no-contact & safety plans to EMDR, gray rock, and rebuilding confidence so you can heal, trust yourself, and thrive. You’ll learn how to:🧭 Spot the cycle: Love-bombing → devaluation → discard (and why it’s not your fault)🛡️ Plan the exit: Safety first—documents, money, timing, support network🚪 Go no-contact (or low-contact): Scripts and boundaries that protect your peace🧠 Heal the nervous system: EMDR, therapy, and trauma-informed self-care🪨 Use “Gray Rock” wisely: When you must interact (kids, court, workplace)💓 Rebuild self-worth: Stop rumination, break trauma bonds, date again—safelyWrite a 1-page personal safety plan (who/when/where/how), screenshot vital docs, and tell one trusted person today.🔗 Dive deeper into Jodi’s work at JodiLynnPavlock.com, your hub for books, resources, and upcoming events.📲 Stay inspired: connect with Jodi on her Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok for daily insights and community support.👉 Love insightful and life-changing interviews? Tap Follow now so you never miss an inspiring episode of The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-advisor-with-stacey-chillemi-mindset-self-improvement--5670856/support. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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