'No' is a complete sentence. But for many of us saying a calm, but confident 'no' can be a challenge.
Today we’re digging into the small and empowering word: no. We talk about how no can be a boundary, a protection, a practice, and even the first step toward a truer, freer yes.
We unpack what it means when a yes isn’t really a yes (you’re choosing the lesser of two bad options), and why real consent only shows up when people feel safe enough to say no. From kids who learn that no equals punishment to adults navigating jobs, power dynamics, and romance, we explore how context shapes our ability to share an honest 'no'.
We get practical: how to be the kind of person who invites authenticity (curiosity > agenda), how to honor a simple 'no' in the moment, and how redirecting a no into a specific yes can preserve intimacy instead of shutting it down. We also talk about the masculine/feminine energy balance — how grounded steadiness creates the container that lets someone safely say yes or no.
Saying no builds trust both ways. If someone can say no to you and you receive it without judgment, you can go deeper. If you can say no and the world doesn’t fall apart, you learn to trust yourself more.
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Sarah Koch: @radintimacy | radintimacy.com
Bryan Russell: @sadhanayogaschool | sadhanayoga.com
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