Episode Synopsis "Understanding Codependence & Choosing To Thrive with Vu Mbambo"
Conversation with Nomvula Mbambo http://instagram.com/nomvula.mfa Intro/Outro music by http://instagram.com/tealousy @teal.ousy Podcast art by Sarah Ching http://instagram.com/sarahhching 0:00-4:09 Intro to the podcast 4:09-7:24 Leaving home for boarding school 7:24-12:10 Undergrad experience - coming to the states for the first time, navigating massive changes, finding herself as a person 12:14-15:28 Receiving & appreciating support 16:16-18:55 Following her heart to the Bay Area for grad school 18:55-20:24 Being appreciated & supported by another artist 21:02-23:47 Current struggles with grad school & life in quarantine 23:57-31:06 Subtle shifts, releasing expectations & letting things be as they are 31:07-33:36 Tattoos - revealing insecurities or reminders? 33:36-40:21 Surviving vs. Thriving 40:22-46:47 Recognizing, naming & being okay with coping 46:48-48:42 Intro to the books Vu has been reading 48:48-51:07 Describing the book: The Choice 51:10-1:00 Describing the book: Facing Codependence & a break down of codependence in her life 1:02.59-1:10.26 Realizing you have a choice & not letting expectations rule your life. 1:10.41-1:12.40 Message to everyone from Vu 1:12.41-1.14.48 What Vu has been up to & what she hopes to do soon 1:14.48-1:16.09-Final words Books/People Mentioned: The Choice by Dr. Edith Eger Facing Codependence by Pia Mellody Untethered Soul by Michael Alan Singer IN-Q quotes (from episode on Almost 30 podcast): "Nothing you do is an obligation. You're choosing to do it. You could make a different choice, or you could make the same choice. But you have to remember that you have a choice. Because if you remember you have a choice, you have freedom." "Be open to the flow of life. See where it takes you. It could be better than you've ever imagined."