“It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” - Teach Different with Epictetus

10/09/2025 43 min

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Episode Synopsis

In this episode of the Teach Different podcast, Steve Fouts and Jarvis Funches explore the Stoic philosophy of Epictetus, focusing on the quote, "It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." They explore the claim of the quote, discussing personal experiences related to this quote, the importance of mental preparation, and the power of decision-making in the face of life's challenges. They unpack the counterclaim of the quote, diving into the complexities of human emotions and the necessity of acknowledging external factors that can impact our reactions. Ultimately, they emphasize the significance of controlling one's mindset and decisions as a pathway to personal growth and resilience.  Episode Chapters:  00:00 - The Impact of Family and Personal Circumstances 01:08 - Understanding Stoicism: Epictetus and Personal Reactions 03:58 - Personal Stories: Overcoming Rejection and Stereotypes 07:02 - Defensive Mechanisms: Responding to Criticism 10:10 - The Power of Control: Decisions and Reactions 13:09 - The Domino Effect: Cause and Effect in Reactions 15:57 - The Nature of Control: What Can We Really Control? 19:02 - Counterclaims: The Complexity of Emotional Responses 22:18 - The Weight of External Forces 24:58 - Facing Life's Harsh Realities 27:58 - The Power of Acceptance 30:52 - Harnessing Mental Strength 33:59 - Navigating Rejection and Perseverance 35:44 - The Importance of Mental Preparation 38:48 - Understanding Control and Decision-Making 42:54 - Teach Different Outro  Image Source: Tucson, AZ, USA via Wikipedia Commons https://sco.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Discourses_-_Epictetus_%28illustration_1%29_%289021700938%29.jpg#file  

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