What happens when your child starts asking about their biological roots—and you realize you don’t have all the answers?In Part 1 of this thoughtful two-part series, Dr. Alyssa Small Layne explores why donor-conceived children often seek connection to their genetic identity, how families can prepare for these questions, and the pros and cons of platforms like the Donor Sibling Registry (DSR). Whether you're using an egg, sperm, or embryo donor, this episode will help you navigate the emotional, ethical, and practical sides of sharing your child’s origin story.What You’ll Learn:Why biology matters to donor-conceived kids—even if you’re the full-time parentHow early conversations about origin shape identity and trustThe difference between anonymous vs. known donorsWhat the Donor Sibling Registry is and how it worksThe emotional weight of “finding out” vs. “growing up knowing”Why openness now avoids difficult surprises laterWhat to expect when connecting with donor siblings or half-sibling familiesLegal limitations around donor trackingHow to emotionally prepare before searchingWhy this isn’t about replacing you—it’s about completing a part of themResources Mentioned:SMS #26- The Man with 1000 Kids - Safety Precautions for SurrogacyDonor Sibling RegistryBook Your family - a donor kids story: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Family-Donor-Kids-Story/dp/0692106936BloomBridge Surrogacy appKey Takeaways:Children often care about their genetic identity more than we expectEarly openness creates stronger family bondsDSR is one of the few platforms that allows intentional, mutual contactParents should emotionally prepare before connecting with donor-linked families

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