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Episode Synopsis
In this episode, we step into the quiet space where identity, responsibility, and becoming collide. Children are often treated like finished people—but they aren’t. They are clay still soft, souls still shaping, minds still forming. They absorb everything: our discipline, our chaos, our healing, our wounds, our capacity, our lack of it. "Children should never inherit our emptiness"And that’s exactly why I chose not to bring one into the world right now.Not out of fear.Not out of avoidance.Out of reverence.I talk about why loving children deeply is actually what led me to this decision. Why becoming is a sacred work. Why parenting requires capacity, not just biology. Why kids need more than our dreams—they need the healthiest version of us to greet them at the door.This episode is an honest exploration of self-awareness, responsibility, and legacy.A reminder that creation isn’t just giving life—it’s shaping it.And sometimes the most loving choice is the one that looks like restraint.Because children don’t inherit who we plan to be.They inherit who we are becoming right now.This is “Why I Won’t Create What I’m Still Becoming.”A conversation about love, growth, and the generation we’re shaping — even before we raise one.
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